last night, like any other wednesday night...was a CSI night...
CSI: miami....a case involving a "cougar" and a "small fish"...
what is a cougar? a cougar is a puma...a lion mountain..
but in this episode the word or term "cougar" refers to a woman 40 years of age pursues younger men; the small fish....
the term "cougar" mengikut wikipedia mula muncul dalam media melalui dating website d canada; cougardate.com. sekarang dah mcm trend, wanita berumur berpasangan dengan lelaki muda..
bermula dengan rosnah mat aris, kemudian rita rudaini dan terbaru bekas isteri ustaz akhil ...
tapi term 'cougar' ini selalu di pandang serong.....kenapa??
salah ke kalau dah jodoh bersama lelaki muda???
personally, perkahwinan bagi aku adalah suatu perjudiaan bercampur komitmen...
kerana kita berkahwin dengan insan, manusia; yg mempunyai kepelbagaian perasaan dan tingkah laku.....dan seharusnya tidak sama dengan kita..
pasangan kita bukan la satu komoditi (john travolta dalam movie taking pelham 123 menganggap manusia sebagai komoditi)
memilih pasangan bukan mcm pilih kasut..
you choose the best shoes that suit you....pay and wear it accordingly...
where and when....ikut suka you......boleh ke buat mcm tu dgn partner u???
happiness and wedding bliss..bukan bergantung pada umur....
bergantung pada watak2 utama nya....
ade yg kahwin sama umur....masih ade differences nya..
berkahwin dengan lebih tua.....ade gap nye...
kahwin dengan muda....ade childish die......
kahwin dgn ustaz....x semesti rukun rumahnya....
kahwin dengan ahli sukan.....28 hari je la jawab nye.....
you married a man, yet with love and pampering...he tends to become a child...
helpless in taking care of himself....sume kena d sediakan.....hehehhee
you married a child, yet with love and committment...he tends to become matured and more responsible.....
apa2 pun...it is a gamble...with a high risk....
this is a matter of heart...
hati dan perasaan nie kadang x boleh d kawal..
jodoh pertemuan plak bukan kita tentukan.....
if we studied linguistics...when u study a "word" or "morpheme".....
every single word or morpheme always has its connotation; an idea suggested by a word...
thus, it is quite sad that..as human evolves and becomes more advance.....
we tend to associate ourselves with animals.....
who would have thought that the word "cougar" connotes a woman...
at the end of the episode, the woman confronted her husband who killed her "small fish"... her husband said that he was furious with his wife's "cougar activities"....the wife rebutted by saying that he also slept around with younger woman.......typically...the man asnwered......
"i am different....I AM A MAN!"
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